7 steps to better sleep
You've downed a chamomile tea, ignored your phone and mentally shoved your 900th sheep over a gate - but still can't get to sleep. Sound familiar? Time to pandemic-proof your Zs.
I have a confinement confession to make; I’ve turned into a full-blown lockdown insomniac. Until Corona hit I swear I could fall asleep faster than an Olympic-level narcoleptic, but since lockdown, something strange has happened. I have joined a waking army of Z-zombies who are struggling to get to sleep, often lying awake for hours at a time, thoughts and worries swirling.
In the past couple off months the hashtag “can’t sleep” has been trending like crazy, with 2.3m people regularly posting about their inability to nod off. It’s the new woke generation – and not in a good way.
Even in normal times, approximately 30% to 35% of the population experiences acute, or short-term, insomnia so it’s little wonder that our new, disrupted schedules and anxieties at this time have created the perfect storm of sleep problems.
We caught up with Kathryn Pinkham, Founder of The Insomnia Clinic and a consultant Sleep Specialist for the NHS for her tips on cracking sleepless nights.
“Even for the most laid back of us, this is a time when it is difficult not to feel worried about the future,” she says. “The pandemic has made many of us feel increasingly stressed and this can often exhibit strongly at night.
“Social-distancing, relationship woes, irritable kids, financial worries and a change in normal routine can profoundly affect your sleep.
“But it’s important to acknowledge that this is ok. We are designed to cope with periods of sleep loss and it’s quality of sleep and not quantity of sleep which counts.”.
KATHRYN’S TOP TIPS
1. Don’t spend too long in bed
The first thing we do when we can’t sleep is start going to bed earlier to try and increase our hours of sleep. Reduce the amount of time you spend in bed awake, go to bed later and get up earlier, this will encourage your body’s natural sleep drive to kick in. By reducing the time you spend in bed you will crave more sleep, fall asleep faster and find your quality of sleep improving.
2. Keep to a routine.
Set your alarm and get up at your usual time. Resist the temptation to lie in as this will affect your ability to build a drive to sleep the next night. If you are self-isolating, then try to stick with a normal routine. Don’t spend lots of time in your pyjamas or watching TV in your bedroom (especially the news!). Instead, as far as you can, keep your bedroom for sleeping.
3. Stop clock watching
It is very tempting to look at the clock every time we wake up to monitor how little sleep we are getting. However, this then increases the pressure to fall back to sleep and makes it less likely. Set your alarm for the morning then avoid looking at the time again.
4. Don’t lie in bed awake
If you can’t get to sleep or have woken up in the middle of the night, get out of bed. The longer we lie in bed trying to fall back to sleep the more frustrated we get. This, in turn, means we begin to subconsciously relate bed to feeling stressed and being awake rather than asleep. Leave the bedroom and do something relaxing like read a book downstairs, then when you are tired go back to bed.
5. Manage your thoughts
A busy mind is one of the most common culprits in keeping us awake at night, so start by writing things down. Make time to list what is on your mind, this can be therapeutic as it is a way of getting things out of your head. Currently, you can’t solve this problem, but when you write down your worries in black and white, you can make a plan about what you are in control of. Ask yourself, how many of the worries are hypothetical (haven’t yet happened) and how is worrying about them affecting you?
6. Get outdoors
Following government guidelines, get outside when you can. If you have a private garden or open space nearby, get outside every day. You need the fresh air to keep you healthy as being inside too long can make it hard to sleep well, and also affect your mood. You also need the daylight to regulate and keep your body clock in sync, so as a minimum make sure all curtains and blinds are fully open during the day.
7. Tap into a mindfulness or meditation app
You can also find help online, there are lots of apps for inducing sleep and reducing anxiety. (Muddy loves Headspace, the free version has “sleepcasts,” which are 45-55 minutes and like adult bedtime stories, and Noisli which lets you choose your favourite sounds. Check out the reassuring murmur of a coffee shop!). Or the Insomnia Clinic offers a free sleep webinar too, which will provide further tips on improving your sleep.
Here are our Muddy top 5 picks for a good night’s kip. Someone hit the lights, we’re off …
This award-winning range will lull you to sleep with frankincense, lavender and marjoram. Spritz your pillow with this relaxing mist when you go to bed to ease tension – dreams never smelt so sweet.
Someone bought me Neom bath salts last year and I haven’t left the bath since. A corker for melting away stresses and bringing on slumber. Infused with safflower and jojoba oil, these Himalayan salts are scented with English lavender, sweet basil and jasmine.
3. ANI Candle No.1 – Spring, £30
Create yourself a sleep haven with this gorgeous candle from Cotswold brand ANI Skincare. Infused with lavender, lemongrass and rosemary, it’ll have you drifting off muttering about running through wheat fields in record time.
4. Ila Big Sleep Drops, £17
These dreamy drops will have you snoozing in no time, combining calming chamomile, sleep-inducing belladonna, orange blossom and liquorice. Take a few drops before bed – an insomniac’s dream.
5. thisworks deep sleep breathe in, £18
Make this part of your essential sleep kit, an aromatherapeutic roll-on that you dab on to your skin’s pulse points to calm and soothe. Packed with essential oils such as lavender and vetivert.
*Main photo by Freepik.com